Mu ngo zimwe na zimwe usaka abakazana cyangwa se abakwe badacana uwaka na ba nyirabukwe, nyamara nkuko bitangazwa na Charlotte , umujyanama mu by’ingo, hari ubwo usanga umwe mu bashakanye afite uruhare mu gutera amakimbirane hagati y’uwo bashakanye n’umuryango avukamo mu gihe akoze amwe mu makosa akurikira :
Kwirengagiza ko wagize umuryango mushya
Mu gihe wari ukiri ingaragu utarashaka hari ibyo wacyemuraga mu muryango w’imwanyu kuko nta wundi muryango wabaga ufite, ariko mu gihe wagize umuryango ntukumve ko uzajya ukemura ibibazo by’umuryango wawe ngo ubivange n’ibyo mu muryango ukomokamo.
Urugero niba ufite inshingano zo kuvuza mama wawe yarwaye wishaka kubirutisha izindi nshingano z’urugo ngo umwana abure amafaranga y’ishuri kuko wayatanze kuri mama wawe ari kwa muganga.
Kwereka uwo mwashakanye ho ari munsi y’ababyeyi bawe
Gushaka ntibibuza guha agaciro ababyeyi bawe no gukomeza kubaha icyubahiro bakwiye ariko mu gihe ukangisha uwo mwashakanye ababyeyi bawe ukamwereka ko bagufiteho uruhare ruruta urw’uwo mwashakanye bizarangira bibateye kwangana kandi biturutse kuri wowe.
Charlotte yagize ati " Hari nk’umugore uba ukundana na nyina ku buryo ubukwe umwe yatashye undi aba yabutashye bahora bari kumwe. Umugabo ashobora kumubuza kujyana na mama we kubera imoamvu zitungranye, umugore agakomeza guhatiriza amwumvisha ko mama we yubashywe, atagomba kumusuzugura bikarangira umugabo amwemereye atari uko we abikunze ahubwo abitewe n’ingufu umugore we yamushyizeho."
Guhora ugisha ababyeyi inama aho kuzigisha uwo mwashakanye
Ibi ahanini biba ku miryango ikimara gushyingiranwa akabaye kose ukumva ko ugomba kugisha inama ababyeyi bamwe mbere yuko mubiganiraho nk’abashakanye ugasanga aribo bakuyobora mu byo ukora.
Kugirana umushyikirano ukabije n’ababyeyi bawe
Hari abantu bashaka ntibamenye ko bagize imiryango yo kwitaho. Urugero ugasanga kuri telefoni buri gihe aba avugana n’iwabo, uko abonye umwanya akajya ku basura cyane cyane iyo ari hafi, ugasanga umushyikirano mugirana urusha uwo ugirana n’uwo mwashakanye.
Nubwo umubeyi n’umwana bafite ibibahuza byinshi ku buryo umubano hagati yabo uba ukeneye gukomeza na nyuma yo gushinga ingo, ni byiza kwitonda mu mibanire yawe n’ababyeyi bawe kugirango bitaba byanakurura urwango hagati y’uwo mwashakanye n’ababyeyi bawe kandi ari wowe ubaye intandaro yabyo
